He needs to win and feel like a man through consistent intercourse.
Of course, for those who are not particularly interested in building a life-long partnership then this is an acceptable way of life.
Have conversation with yourself before that big date so that you can build that firm resolve and stick to it. Be aware of the risks and possibilities of STDS: A healthy dose of fear is a good thing.
It will give you pause to consider whether or not to take sexual activity to the next level.
What we share is mostly hovering in cyberspace so that when we do get together there is not much left to say. It is how this generation communicates, through sex.
To many a man sex is a game where he feels he has scored.
Make sure your brain, heart and your sexual organ are in sync and align with your decision before you have sex.
Many young Generation X'ers tend to move on to the next person if they didn't have sex on the first or second encounter.
They may find that they don't even like the person, but in the heat of the moment they think nothing of having sex for the instant satisfaction it affords them.
It is therefore, to these men and women we address this question: How soon is too soon to have sex? Baby boomers are far more likely to wait to have sex than young daters because having gone thru the sexual revolution, with maturity they realize there are emotional consequences for getting involved in a sexual relationship.
However they play by far different rules than young 20-something daters.