Gravidity is a term used to describe the number of times that a female has been pregnant.
Similarly, the term parity is used for the number of times that a female carries a pregnancy to a viable stage.
If they hit you, they will make you feel like it was because of something you did wrong. Talk to a member of the opposite sex, they interrogate you about it. You better be ready to explain where you were and what you were doing and why you were doing it. Teachers and bosses are trying to make things hard for them on purpose.
If they cheat on you, they will blame it on something you couldn’t provide them. You start to feel like you are playing a game to which there are no rules and there is no way out. Your partner has to know where you are and what you are doing at all times. He or she might spy on you, check the messages on your phone, talk to your friends without you knowing, have people “check up” on you, hack into your email account or Facebook to see who you are talking to. But they make you feel like you have to stay with them no matter how they treat you, or that they can’t help the way that they act. No matter what they do, or have done, nothing is ever their fault.
They might call you fat in front of your friends, or make fun of your clothes. You don’t understand what went wrong, or why your partner acts the way they do or what you can do to make things better.They might tell you you are not allowed to hang out with a certain person anymore, or wear a certain shirt, or go to a certain restaurant. Because they have a depressing family life, come from a broken home, had parents that didn’t love them right, are in debt, can’t hold a job, have a disease, a psychotic ex, a broken heart, low self-esteem….whatever their story is, they will make you feel sympathy for it. As real as they might be, and as sad as they might be, they are a trap that keeps you stuck. I am currently dealing with someone just like this; last night I was in a correctional counseling class and my professor asked us to use Roberts Hare’s psychopath checklist to grade someone we knew and I already knew who I would grade.Of course, your partner is allowed to do whatever he or she wants and you are not allowed to question them, but they will control everything you do. You can’t control what happened to them, and you can’t solve it for them. Needless to say, he got a near perfect score of 34 (30-40 being a bonafide psychopath) on this test and with that I began my online research of psychopath traits; that is how I found this post and I would like to share my story to anyone who will read.In the case of a multiple birth the gravida number and parity value are increased by one only.Women who have never carried a pregnancy achieving more than 20 weeks of gestation age are referred to as nulliparous.