There is an interesting chart from the rules revisited on the modifiable aspects of feminine beauty.
I disagree with some of them categorizations as I probably know more about the human body than the author; however, the vast extent of physical appearance is changeable and can be attractive. The general theme that I always talk about is based on the law of the reciprocal.
Only vague garbage like “don’t look at porn” or “don’t treat women this way.” This being the reason that I consistently harp on the fact that if you are eliminating something it must be replaced by something else.
However, men tend to be best when someone gets down in the dirt with them and walks life with them.
The two main areas that I always suggest to women who do want men to “step up and lead” are: You really want to know why there are no eligible Christian masculine men?
The atmosphere in the church is hostile to such men.
They are carried every which way because they are not grounded in the faith.
Essentially, the feminization of the church creates an atmosphere to where men are unwelcome.In other words, become the ideal spouse of your ideal spouse.However, it never hurts to be more attractive than required as that opens up more possibilities.The women don’t encourage men as they are growing and learning to be men. How would it be if you’re a single woman and the men are complaining that there are no good Christian single women in the Church? This should be pretty clear given many of my posts geared toward teaching men how to be men and giving examples of what they need to do to find a godly wife.The two main examples being: my 5 step process to maturity in relationships, andmy detailed timeline and how-to guide to finding a wife.