How has the normalization of anal sex shifted our attitudes and discussions around consent?How must the conversations evolve as a result of anal's newfound popularity?She notes that many people have had bad first experiences because they either didn't use lubricant, moved too fast, thought that anal play had to involve deep penetration (when, in fact, external stimulation and light, shallow penetration is ideal for accessing the nerve endings in the anus) or felt pressured to try it. We can't just brush this issue under the rug for fear of a right-winged, "We told ya anal was bad and a sin! In order for people to avoid anal when they don't want to have it, and to have good anal when they do, we have to provide clear-cut, pleasure-based sex education and consent in schools and at home.
Pop-culture acolytes proclaimed 2014 the "Year of the Booty," which heralded a deluge of think pieces about the portrayal of butt sex on mainstream television shows like Data from Porn Hub reveals that from 2009 to 2015, search volume for anal sex videos skyrocketed by 120 percent.Mal Harrison, director for the Center for Erotic Intelligence, blames this lack of communication around consent on what she calls low social intelligence.In this case, "the desperation to have any sex regardless of the consequences, pain, or disrespect it causes another." She describes high social intelligence as knowing the greatest sex happens between people who are genuinely into it with great enthusiasm.Du får samtidig langt mere dynamisk indhold med flere billeder til hver artikel og mulighed for at se video direkte i appen, hvis du bruger tablet.E-avisen er tilgængelig fra 22.15, så du kan være på forkant med dagens nyheder. Misbrug vil medføre øjeblikkelig opsigelse af abonnementet fra Politikens side uden kompensation.