Terribly unpleasant, but the natural course of things.
This may change as children grow up with the diagnosis, and learn that bullying, teasing, and cruelty is not a thing to tolerate from anyone. There are many, many adult AS’s who are undiagnosed and struggling in their relationship.
Most stuff on the internet tell you about problems with these couples.
Here are some of the good reasons to love an aspie.
In some ways, it is like your dentist wondering if you’ll be sneaking off getting an optional root canal with another dentist. They can be enormously forgiving and generous in spirit.
It would be like demanding your spouse fly, and being angry at them, as they repeatedly drop to the ground.They might find kissing too wet or become upset that you’re touching them too lightly, or might need a sheet between you when you have intercourse, so they can relax.Try explaining that to someone you just met in an airport lounge. She’s not setting you up to eat a cold dinner, it isn’t a “defense mechanism” against intimate family time, or passive aggression. New lovers say it is sometimes impossible to predict what their intimate AS partners will do next, or how they will respond to something.Say “I want you to tell me you love me at least three times every day. Refinements, of course, are necessary but would make up a much larger post.I’ll get to writing another specific post on this topic of lying and truth-telling. The readers are very helpful in teasing out the nuance. Juggling two is just ridiculous, from an AS point of view.