Dating a recently separated man with children
My fear about dating a woman without kids is more about boundaries and time management. It’s not about her wanting more of my attention or not.
The issue is my management of my relationship with my kids and my ex-wife I can use the kids to get away with murder.
recently) divorced, and you’re wondering if dating this man is a good idea. Some people might automatically say you shouldn’t date anyone who falls into this category, but I’m not a fan of telling someone whether they date someone. My approach is to help you get super realistic about what you want, and what you’re getting into, so that you can make your decision to stay or leave as as possible.
You probably have a million questions on your mind. With that said, if you meet someone you’re really attracted to, but the ink on his divorce papers hasn’t yet had time to dry, you are going to need to approach some things differently if you want to minimize the risk of getting your heart broken.
Most experts agree that a recent divorce is one that happened within the last year or two.Kids might trump our plans, but I am always willing to talk about it.And I am perfectly capable to make decisions based on a requests and a crisis in the moment.The real answer is: As a single parent I have responsibilities to my kids that will trump all plans 100% of the time.However, I will never use those same responsibilities to disrespect you or avoid my commitment and responsibilities to you.
