When your partner becomes infatuated with someone else, you won’t be the center of their attention.It’s a fact of biochemistry for which we all must brace ourselves.
Start thinking of polyamory as more of an emotional orientation rather than a set of relationship habits.
No matter what, you must be prepared to be nice to your partner’s partners, just as they’d better be nice to you.
It is never excusable to treat your lover’s lover with hostility, nor should your partner tolerate it if someone they’re dating disrespects you in any way.
We all just want to be our harmless selves in peace, don’t we?
My partner of seven years wasn’t so crazy about non-monogamy when I first expressed a desire for it.